CHILDCARE PHILOSOPHY

Work it out as you go along

To live with warmth is to bring a kind and cuddly glow wherever you go.

The world deserves an end to the cycle of violence which begins in childhood.  Children also deserve a fulfilling life now.  But how?  I've read up on many parenting theories, education and schooling theories, and cultural differences.  However, I've come to think that there is no right way.  In systems thinking, a resilient system is one which is adaptable enough to deal with with complexity and subtlety of life.  The most important thing to do, in my opinion, is to hone the skills for deep observation by tuning in and connecting with your child.  Uncover your assumptions and ideology.  Evolve in light of what you learn and find balance.  You get out what you put in, so take the time and make a friend for life.  Remember that an air of calm confidence rubs off, and don't dwell on critics.  Above all, let yourself love your child, and let them know they're loved.  You do not need to be afraid of making them soft, or unprepared.  Touch and kind words wire infant brains to give them the resilience to grow up and change the world.